The First Time We Saw Your Face...

The First Time We Saw Your Face...
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Monday, February 1, 2010

GOTCHA DAY!!!!!

We were up bright and early yesterday morning (2/1/10), exchanged currency, then met our driver to head to Chloe's orphanage, which was an hour away. The orphanage was a very nice building that resembled an elementary school. The took us upstairs to a large room that already had 2 families who had just gotten their children. We completed some paperwork, handed over our orphanage donation, and finally they brought her in. I recognized her immediately. They had her hair fixed so cute and she was bundled up: 2 pants, 2 shirts, and a jacket. She let me hold her, but I could tell she wasn't too happy about it. Kevin held her next, and from that moment until now, she wants nothing to do with me. She won't even hold my hand. She is definitely Kevin's girl! On the way back to the hotel, we saw a glimpse of what we would experience the rest of the afternoon, evening, and through a large part of the night: temper tantrums. She slept last night out of sheer exhaustion. That goes for the two of us, also, not to mention we are still fighting jetlag! I try to remember everything is new and strange to her, too, and in time it will get better.

A couple of other surprises we weren't expecting: 1) at 3 1/2, Chloe is still not potty-trained, so I had to run out and get some diapers. 2) Chloe will need some major dental work when we return as many of her teeth are rotted. The lady at the orphanage said they were like that when she came there. Lots to do and think about when we get home.

Yesterday afternoon when she wasn't throwing a tantrum, she was very sweet and seemed smart. She already knows a few words from the books we brought: eye, nose, ear. She is a great eater. Hopefully she'll transition over to American food with no problems.

Today we will go with our guide to the Civil Affairs Office to complete paperwork. I have posted some pictures of our Gotcha Day.





























7 comments:

  1. Oh my word she is a beauty!!! Curlies and all. lol You can tell she was loved.

    Hang in there things will get better day by day. Remember we had a very hard Gotcha Day once the Director and Nanny of 4 days left... the love, smiles, and hugs subsided for several hours with tons of crying. Then he calmed down ate Pizza and was better day by day.

    We love you guys.

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  2. Oh she is just beautiful! Be still my heart! I love seeing her in her Mommy and Daddy's arms.
    The Potty training is the biggest surprise..normally Chinese children are potty trained very young...bet it will go quickly once you get her home. Momma don't worry, she'll soon realize how important you are (sorry Kevin, but its true!)
    She is just beautiful! Tomorrow if you get a chance, tell me about her size...so I can see if I need to get busy getting some new things for her to wear when she gets home!
    Congrats to you and your dream girl!
    Love you guys.
    Norah

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  3. Mary, she is a beauty! So happy for you and Kevin.

    She sounds like a female Thomas. Thomas wasn't potty trained at 3, had a cavity in every tooth in his head, and wanted nothing to do with me in China. :) She will come around, all in good time. Just keep loving her up!

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  4. Oh Mary and Kevin what a beauty!!!!! Mary you and Kevin well be blessed with this little girl as she will be with you. She will come around with all the love you two have to offer. We are all so excited for you.

    Sandy Hudson

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  5. Congratulations! What a cutie! And she sounds like a definite three year old. I'm sure each day will get better and better. Hang in there! Mary, your smile is priceless!

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  6. Mary, she's just too cute for words. So happy you final have Chloe with you. Also sorry you had a tough first night. It will get better -- I promise. :) I'll see you soon in GZ.

    Love ya,
    Sherry

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  7. Mary and Kevin, Chloe is just adorable! I've never seen a little one presented so fashionably on Gotcha Day! Oh, and don't worry about her being Daddy's little girl. Maiya did the exact same thing with Roger our first week together, and so did all the other little girls in our travel group. In time that will change and she will accept you as her momma! Enjoy the rest of your time in China!

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